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The following questions and phrases exemplify the language style that promotes good process, respectful relationships and mutually beneficial agreements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
What if we\u2026?<\/td>\nWhat is important to you about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
What's your point of view on\u2026?<\/td>\nLet's look at how we both\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Correct me if I'm wrong\u2026<\/td>\nHow do you feel about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
What was your intention\u2026?<\/td>\nI'd like to focus on\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How would you\u2026if I\u2026?<\/td>\nMy concern is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Let me see if I understand you\u2026<\/td>\nI'll consider that and get back to you.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How acceptable would this be...?<\/td>\nWhat more can you tell me about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How fair does it seem (or make sense)...?<\/td>\nWhat thought have you given to\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Let's consider\u2026<\/td>\nHow would it work if\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How do you see it?<\/td>\nMy hope (intention \/ goal) is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
In your experience\u2026?<\/td>\nWhat I value most is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Words and phrases to avoid (they signal argumentation)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, but...<\/p>\n

I understand how you feel, however...<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sorry you feel that way, nonetheless...<\/p>\n

With all due respect...<\/p>\n

And at the end of the day...<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all well and good but...<\/p>\n

I completely disagree with you...<\/p>\n\n","rendered":"

The following questions and phrases exemplify the language style that promotes good process, respectful relationships and mutually beneficial agreements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
What if we\u2026?<\/td>\nWhat is important to you about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
What’s your point of view on\u2026?<\/td>\nLet’s look at how we both\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Correct me if I’m wrong\u2026<\/td>\nHow do you feel about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
What was your intention\u2026?<\/td>\nI’d like to focus on\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How would you\u2026if I\u2026?<\/td>\nMy concern is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Let me see if I understand you\u2026<\/td>\nI’ll consider that and get back to you.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How acceptable would this be…?<\/td>\nWhat more can you tell me about\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How fair does it seem (or make sense)…?<\/td>\nWhat thought have you given to\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Let’s consider\u2026<\/td>\nHow would it work if\u2026?<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How do you see it?<\/td>\nMy hope (intention \/ goal) is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
In your experience\u2026?<\/td>\nWhat I value most is\u2026<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Words and phrases to avoid (they signal argumentation)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, but…<\/p>\n

I understand how you feel, however…<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sorry you feel that way, nonetheless…<\/p>\n

With all due respect…<\/p>\n

And at the end of the day…<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all well and good but…<\/p>\n

I completely disagree with you…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"menu_order":2,"template":"","meta":{"pb_show_title":"on","pb_short_title":"","pb_subtitle":"","pb_authors":[],"pb_section_license":""},"chapter-type":[],"contributor":[],"license":[],"class_list":["post-198","chapter","type-chapter","status-publish","hentry"],"part":196,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/chapter"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":243,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/198\/revisions\/243"}],"part":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/parts\/196"}],"metadata":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/198\/metadata\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"chapter-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapter-type?post=198"},{"taxonomy":"contributor","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/contributor?post=198"},{"taxonomy":"license","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/cres1100\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/license?post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}