{"id":66,"date":"2020-09-06T20:55:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T00:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/?post_type=chapter&p=66"},"modified":"2020-09-16T09:56:43","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T13:56:43","slug":"on-forbidden-rooms-and-intentional-forgetting","status":"publish","type":"chapter","link":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/chapter\/on-forbidden-rooms-and-intentional-forgetting\/","title":{"raw":"On Forbidden Rooms and Intentional Forgetting","rendered":"On Forbidden Rooms and Intentional Forgetting"},"content":{"raw":"
\r\n\r\nThemes:\u00a0 <\/strong>\r\n\r\nDealing with Sexual Assault, Trauma, Pain\r\n\r\n \r\n\r\nDisciplines:<\/strong>\r\n\r\nEducation, Counselling, Psychology, Social Sciences, Law, Women and Gender Studies\r\n\r\n<\/div>\r\n

Guiding Questions:<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n
    \r\n \t
  1. What is your reaction to Elliott\u2019s take on Charles Perrault\u2019s interpretation of the tale of Bluebeard (p. 123)? What is your interpretation of the tale? Compare and contrast your interpretation to Elliott\u2019s?<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
      \r\n \t
    1. What are your forbidden rooms?<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
        \r\n \t
      1. If Bluebeard\u2019s story is a representation of what if<\/em> occurring in society, what are Canada\u2019s forbidden rooms?<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
          \r\n \t
        1. Write a variation of\u00a0the tale of Bluebeard that\u00a0represents\u00a0your values and\u00a0incorporates a perspective that is\u00a0reflective of today\u2019s society.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
            \r\n \t
          1. What have you learned from Elliott\u2019s\u00a0approach to dealing with her sexual assault?<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
              \r\n \t
            1. Discuss Elliott\u2019s statement that \u201cThere is a\u00a0performative\u00a0nature to pain?\u201d (p. 129).<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                \r\n \t
              1. Are we supposed to deal with trauma in prescribed ways that are acceptable to society?\u00a0Expand on your answer fully.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                  \r\n \t
                1. How would you respond to someone who is close to you and who shares with you they have experienced a significant trauma in their life?<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                    \r\n \t
                  1. Image that you are an advice columnist for a major news outlet\u00a0and you receive a request for advice on how to respond to a close friend who shares with you that they have experienced a significant trauma in their life. Taking into consideration what Elliott has shared in this chapter, how would respond to this request.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                      \r\n \t
                    1. \u201cThough intentional forgetting is seen as a bad way to heal, there is mounting evidence that it is, in fact, a better alternative to intentionally remembering\u201d (p. 125). Discuss the pros and cons of both approaches and relate to an event or experience in your life or someone close to you.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                        \r\n \t
                      1. Select a painting or picture that reflects how you feel about what Elliott shared in this chapter. Share the image of the painting or picture and explain your interpretation of\u00a0it\u00a0and how it relates to Elliott\u2019s story.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n \r\n
                          \r\n \t
                        1. \u201cSexual assault has one of the smallest conviction rates of violent crime in Canada\u201d\u00a0(p. 133). Discuss this statistic and compare it to two other countries and explain the story behind the statistics.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>","rendered":"
                          \n

                          Themes:\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

                          Dealing with Sexual Assault, Trauma, Pain<\/p>\n

                           <\/p>\n

                          Disciplines:<\/strong><\/p>\n

                          Education, Counselling, Psychology, Social Sciences, Law, Women and Gender Studies<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

                          Guiding Questions:<\/strong><\/h2>\n
                            \n
                          1. What is your reaction to Elliott\u2019s take on Charles Perrault\u2019s interpretation of the tale of Bluebeard (p. 123)? What is your interpretation of the tale? Compare and contrast your interpretation to Elliott\u2019s?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                             <\/p>\n

                              \n
                            1. What are your forbidden rooms?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                               <\/p>\n

                                \n
                              1. If Bluebeard\u2019s story is a representation of what if<\/em> occurring in society, what are Canada\u2019s forbidden rooms?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                 <\/p>\n

                                  \n
                                1. Write a variation of\u00a0the tale of Bluebeard that\u00a0represents\u00a0your values and\u00a0incorporates a perspective that is\u00a0reflective of today\u2019s society.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                   <\/p>\n

                                    \n
                                  1. What have you learned from Elliott\u2019s\u00a0approach to dealing with her sexual assault?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                     <\/p>\n

                                      \n
                                    1. Discuss Elliott\u2019s statement that \u201cThere is a\u00a0performative\u00a0nature to pain?\u201d (p. 129).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                       <\/p>\n

                                        \n
                                      1. Are we supposed to deal with trauma in prescribed ways that are acceptable to society?\u00a0Expand on your answer fully.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                         <\/p>\n

                                          \n
                                        1. How would you respond to someone who is close to you and who shares with you they have experienced a significant trauma in their life?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                           <\/p>\n

                                            \n
                                          1. Image that you are an advice columnist for a major news outlet\u00a0and you receive a request for advice on how to respond to a close friend who shares with you that they have experienced a significant trauma in their life. Taking into consideration what Elliott has shared in this chapter, how would respond to this request.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                             <\/p>\n

                                              \n
                                            1. \u201cThough intentional forgetting is seen as a bad way to heal, there is mounting evidence that it is, in fact, a better alternative to intentionally remembering\u201d (p. 125). Discuss the pros and cons of both approaches and relate to an event or experience in your life or someone close to you.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                               <\/p>\n

                                                \n
                                              1. Select a painting or picture that reflects how you feel about what Elliott shared in this chapter. Share the image of the painting or picture and explain your interpretation of\u00a0it\u00a0and how it relates to Elliott\u2019s story.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                                 <\/p>\n

                                                  \n
                                                1. \u201cSexual assault has one of the smallest conviction rates of violent crime in Canada\u201d\u00a0(p. 133). Discuss this statistic and compare it to two other countries and explain the story behind the statistics.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"author":310,"menu_order":10,"template":"","meta":{"pb_show_title":"on","pb_short_title":"","pb_subtitle":"","pb_authors":[],"pb_section_license":""},"chapter-type":[47],"contributor":[],"license":[],"class_list":["post-66","chapter","type-chapter","status-publish","hentry","chapter-type-standard"],"part":3,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/66","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/chapter"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/310"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/66\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":186,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/66\/revisions\/186"}],"part":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/parts\/3"}],"metadata":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapters\/66\/metadata\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"chapter-type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/pressbooks\/v2\/chapter-type?post=66"},{"taxonomy":"contributor","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/contributor?post=66"},{"taxonomy":"license","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pressbooks.bccampus.ca\/guideforamindspreadout\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/license?post=66"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}