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23 Story Part 2 – Returning to the Child Who Said “Sky”

 

As we conclude this chapter I want to return to the story in the opening comic. I think it gives us more than just an anecdote; it is a metaphor for the entire field of developmental psychology. Just as the child’s answer, “sky”, opened a window into their stage of cognitive development, each theory and research method we explored offers insights into the vast “sky” of human growth and change. From the naturalistic observations that capture behavior in its most genuine form to the controlled experiments that discover the important details of development, we’ve seen the many ways in which individuals evolve from infancy through to old age.

 

As we close this chapter, inspired by the child’s profound yet simple answer, we’re reminded of the importance of approaching the study of lifespan development with openness, curiosity, and a willingness to be surprised. The field invites us to look beyond our preconceptions and biases, to question the ‘errors’ and ‘misunderstandings’ not just in others but within ourselves, and to embrace the vastness of the human experience with the same wonder and wisdom with which a child sees the sky. This chapter has laid a foundation not just for academic inquiry but for a lifelong journey of discovery about how we grow, adapt, and thrive throughout our lives, encouraging us to keep looking up, always ready to be amazed by the endless possibilities of development. I hope this exploration into lifespan development has kindled in you a curiosity to view your own “errors” as stepping stones and to pursue your personal growth with the same passion that has fueled my career in this fascinating field.

1 A colleague told me this true story and gave me permission to share it. I have changed some details to make it anonymous and protect privacy.
2 WEIRD stands for Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic. This term is used to describe the type of backgrounds that a lot of psychological research is based on. Historically, many studies have focused on people from countries or societies that are wealthy, have high levels of education, and democratic governments. The problem is that not everyone in the world lives in these kinds of places or has these experiences.
3 Defining microaggression: A “microaggression” is like a small, often unnoticed action or comment that can hurt someone because it makes a negative assumption about them based on things like their race, gender, or culture. It’s often not meant to be mean, but it can still feel disrespectful or hurtful to the person it’s directed at.

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